Its nearly that time of year again.
No, not Christmas.
After all of the adverts have encouraged you to eat mince pies like they are about to be made illegal. Buy Quality Street by the tub full. Drink all of the Prosecco.
It’s nearly the time of the detox. The celebrity exercise DVD. The new year’s weight loss resolution.
The diet machine.
Consider the messaging. Eat, drink and be merry.
Then find a quick fix for those extra pounds because of all the food you scoffed.
The stampede to the gym will commence, brand new shiny white trainers in hand.
I’m not knocking that by the way. A few years ago, I was one of those new year new you sign ups.
But the messaging gets me.
The disconnect. The way that people are encouraged to think about food and their bodies.
Here’s the thing. When someone loses weight, it isn’t thanks to Weight Watchers. Or Slimming World. Or Lean in 15 (as good as I think this plan is). It isn’t down to some celebrity who has been paid money and had plenty of help to get down to a certain size, in order to shift some diet merch.
It is because someone makes the decision to make a change in their life.
And here’s the thing. Anyone can do it.
Don’t believe me?
I was one of those people who believed that she couldn’t lose weight. That they would always be fat. That they would always shop in the plus size store. That they had ‘tried everything’. I was a big, big girl and I had tried most of the so-called solutions from weekly classes to juice diets to the 5:2. Fads. But I had never changed my mindset.
One day, on New Year’s Eve 2012 to be precise, I made the decision to make a change. And I did.
It is still hard. It is still a daily challenge and I know it always will be. I don’t pretend to have this all figured out.
What I do know from my own experience is that the first step to changing your life is changing the stories that you tell yourself.
You don’t need to sign up to an expensive plan. You don’t need to follow a guru. Let them inspire you, yes. But weight loss starts with you. With a decision. With making real change. Believing that you can and you will.
If you want to make that change don’t wait for the 1st January. Just do it. And I wish you all the luck in the world.